Talk about love

ever wonder what love is? Of course everybody had

Now my thoughts about love.

I never understand how come I can fall in love with one girl and not with the other, is it their look? Their smile or odor? I saw in discovery channel some show about love but still it doesn't satisfy me, or love is just a magic? I don't think so.

For me love begin when you want to belong to something, something other than your friends or family, that's why some people who were not married or in a relationship have a high sense of belonging to something else, like their job, their friends, their school, their family. These people don't need love, they already belong to something. Is it wrong not to love? Are these people sick? NO, its just that their expectation for love is a bit higher, they already belong to something why they want to risk that for love? They want something better than what they already have, they need better relationship with better partner. In a perfect world this would be easy to find but not in our life time. Your partner will make you sad and laugh and sad and happy, those who have serious relationship understand how hard it is to keep a relationship alive.
So why bother for love? If love make you sad, make you cry, make you wanna kill yourself, what for?

For me I need love to feel I'm alive, I want to feel sad, to cry, to be angry, to be happy, and many many more feelings that come with love, I wanna live. These feelings of course appears also in friendship or family or job, but its totally in different level. Love makes my life fun!.
But of course you need to fall in love with the right person, if not love will kill you slowly and painfully. This is the hardest part of love, to find the right one. Have I found the right one? Maybe. This is where your logic must win over your feeling, I learnt this the hard way. When you fall hard for someone, also think harder. There is no perfect partner, not even you.

So just hold your partner's hand and say let love be our vehicle to enjoy life and our brain as the break.